Let’s be blunt. The Honourable Husband's clan lives in junkyards. None of us can throw away a damn thing.
I travel a lot for business, you see. The moment you park your butt on a business class seat, they give you these quite substantial bags of toiletries and sockettes and eyemasks and earplugs and such. It seems such a shame to throw them out. I mean, what if you're trying sleep in with a hangover and it just happens to be the day when the curtains are at the cleaners? You'll thank your lucky stars that you didn't toss the eyemask. See? I told you so.
And hotels. The shampoo and hand cream and conditioner. I mean, they’re free. Why not? These ended up in the second bathroom, so my guests could enjoy the illusion of staying in exotic places (usually an exotic Hyatt) as they bunked out in a sleeping bag on the couch. And even though I am almost completely bald, I always steal the shower cap just on principle.
I managed to craigslist a lot of electrical items and sporting goods, which yielded a bit of cash to salve the insecurity. I tossed out a huge pile of old magazines, which pained me; feature articles are amongst the most brilliantly polished writing on the planet today. But it's all backed up online, now, in our brave new century.
So is much of our musical heritage, but that didn't help when it came time to unload my vinyl LPs.
You know the old saying about newlyweds? If they put a penny in the jar under the bed every time they make love in their first year, then take out a penny for every time they make love thereafter, they will probably never empty the jar. Apparently, the same applies to music purchases before and after the age of 23. I certainly demonstrated it in my own case. Conveniently, I was 23 when they first started to market CDs. I'm a pretty reckless buyer of CDs, but sure enough, when counted, the LPs outnumbered the CDs by a significant margin.
He had just bought his first turntable, and with his limited spare cash, was buying firmware. I remarked that he might like to turn around and sell some of the records individually, and perhaps even make a profit. No, he said, he simply couldn't bear to part with something so interesting and precious as music. The records will stay on his shelf forever. Ah, a man after my own heart! I nearly gave him the whole lot, but regained my sanity in the nick of time.
Naturally, the airline and hotel shit simply had to go. Not to mention books I’d read and hated, clothes that no longer fit, pictures for which I’d no wall space, cheap chipboard bookcases which cost more to send around the world than to replace, and the inevitable exercise bike that turned into a coat rack.
Now—please doctor, just one more puff—all this is too good to throw away. People could find it useful. Some might even pay good money for it. So I called the Salvation Army.
The doorman sent the truck driver up to my apartment. A splendid young man who sported muscles of the kind you can get only from moving furniture. Alas, he didn’t get much of a workout.
“Well, you see, we can’t take those little bottles of shampoo. We don’t know what’s in them and we can’t sell unknown stuff and have someone sue us over it."
“Can’t you use it in your homeless shelters? A few of those guys could use a little upward fragrance adjustment.”
“You look like a reasonable guy, but some sickos might be like, putting acid in it or somethin’.”
“Not even this fine loofah? It comes from the Ritz-Carlton.”
“Is that some kind of cracker?”
“Never mind. You can just take the other stuff."
"Hmm...I'd better just check it out, first." He sifted through my goods like a paramedic on triage duty. Too-good-to-throw-away turned into not-quite-good-enough-not-to-throw away.
"The clothes," he said, "They're worn."
Well, like duh. Of course they're worn, I countered. He explained to me that there were plenty of rich people in New York. They bought clothes and wore them once, and sometimes not at all. Salvation Army thrift shops were filled to the brim with much more saleable fashion than my humble garb.
Further, the electrical goods could prove dangeous; the chipboard bookshelves would cost more to transport and distribute than Ikea charged for them retail; and everybody in New York wants to get rid of an exercise bike they bought because it was cheaper than membership at Equinox.
Several thoughts entered my mind. Yet more insufferable New York snobbery? Yet another snub of a heathen by the church? Then the obvious struck. My worldly possions were crap.
I cannot tell you how much it upset me.
Thankfully, after a hefty tip, the building super and his crew of doormen dealt with everything. I hope they enjoy the loofah. And the shower caps. You see, all of them still have their hair.